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How to choose the best email marketing software for your business: questions to ask vendors

This guide is for a small business choosing software to send newsletters and marketing emails to customers who signed up. The best one is the one that helps you follow email consent rules, gets your emails into inboxes, and has a price that still works as your list grows. The questions below help you compare vendors in the same way.

Updated 14 November 2026

In this guide, a vendor is a company that sells email marketing software. Your list is the people who agreed to get your emails.

Why a sales demo is not enough

An email marketing demo shows a beautiful newsletter. The problems show up later, for example:

So ask about these in writing, and ask every vendor exactly the same questions. Then you can compare their answers directly.

Before you contact any vendor

Write down your answers to these four points. They decide which questions in the checklist matter most to you.

The checklist

The questions are in three groups. Must have means a problem here can break email rules, stop your emails arriving, or make it costly to leave. Nice to have means it makes a real difference for many people. Optional means it only matters to some people. When you open the checklist in NeutralPick, you can move any question to a different group to match your answers above.

The button opens this checklist in NeutralPick. There you can:

  1. Remove the questions that don't matter to you, add your own, and move questions between groups.
  2. Add each vendor you are considering.
  3. Send each vendor its own private link, so they answer every question in writing. Or, if you have already had a sales call or a product demo with a vendor, fill in their answers yourself from what they told you.
  4. See every vendor's answers side by side.

Want to see what a finished comparison looks like first? See an example comparison with three made-up email marketing software vendors.

Start with this checklist

Answers to look at carefully

Vendors often answer the points below in vague terms. When you get a vague answer, ask the follow-up question shown here. A vague answer often means the honest answer is "no" or "only partly".

What to do with the answers

  1. Put all the vendors' answers side by side.
  2. Look at the Must have questions first. If a vendor answers No to something you marked as a must-have, remove that vendor.
  3. If a vendor answered "Partial" to a must-have, ask them exactly what is missing.
  4. In the trial of each one left, set up your domain, send a test email to a few addresses at different email providers, and check whether it lands in the inbox.

Why use NeutralPick to compare email marketing software vendors

Start with this checklist See an example comparison