How to choose the best mattress for you: what to check before you buy
There is no single best mattress. The best mattress is the one that is comfortable for your body and the way you sleep, and that you can test well enough before you are committed to it. This guide lists what to look up for each mattress you are considering, before you pay, so you can compare them in the same way.
Why the adverts and the reviews are not enough
Mattress adverts show the best result a mattress can reach. The detailed terms often say something different. For example:
- A long "trial period" may have conditions, such as a minimum number of nights before you can return it, or a collection fee.
- A long warranty may only cover sagging deeper than a set depth, not the mattress becoming less comfortable.
- Firmness labels such as "medium" mean different things from one maker to another.
Many mattress review websites also earn money when readers buy through their links. That doesn't make them wrong, but it is a reason to check the same things for every mattress yourself, using the maker's own terms.
Before you look at any mattress
Write down your answers to these four points. They decide which checks in the list matter most to you.
- How you sleep. On your back, side or front, whether you move a lot, and whether you share the bed.
- Any discomfort. For example back or hip pain, or sleeping too hot. If you have a medical condition, ask your doctor what to look for.
- Your bed. The exact size of your bed frame, and whether the frame has slats, a solid base or springs.
- Getting it home. Stairs, narrow doors, and what will happen to your old mattress.
The checklist
The checks are in three groups. Must have means a problem here can make it hard to use or costly to fix. Nice to have means it makes a real difference for many people. Optional means it only matters to some people. When you open the checklist in NeutralPick, you can move any check to a different group to match your answers above.
- Must have
- A way to test it: in a shop, a home trial, or bothCan I lie on it in a shop before buying, or return it after sleeping on it? For a trial: how many nights, any minimum, and who pays for collection?Comfort can feel different after a few weeks of sleeping on it. Testing in a shop, or a trial with clear, free returns, lowers the risk of a wrong choice.
- Firmness that suits how you sleepWhat firmness is it, how does the maker describe it for back, side and front sleepers, and is there a choice of firmness?Firmness labels differ between makers. Lie on it in a shop if you can, in your usual sleeping position, for several minutes.
- The right size for your bed frameDoes it come in the exact size of my bed frame, and is it suitable for my type of base (slats, solid or springs)?Bed sizes differ between countries and makers. Some mattresses also need slats spaced closer than a set distance.
- A warranty that covers what can go wrongHow long is the warranty, does it cover sagging, and how deep must a dip be before it is covered?Many warranties only cover dips deeper than a set measurement. Read what is excluded, such as stains or an unsuitable base.
- Returns and refunds in writingIf I return it, do I get a full refund or credit only, how quickly, and are there any fees?Some shops refund only part of the price or give store credit. Consumer law may give you more, for example for mattresses bought online.
- Nice to have
- Doesn't make you too hotDo owners say it sleeps hot, and what does the maker say about airflow?Some foam mattresses hold more heat than spring mattresses. Owner reviews usually mention it.
- Doesn't pass on movement, if you share the bedIf one person moves or gets up, does the other feel it?Only matters if you share the bed. Independent tests and owner reviews describe it.
- Firm edgesDo the edges feel firm when sitting on them or lying near them, or do they sink?Soft edges make the usable width smaller, and can make it harder to get up.
- Delivery and removal of your old mattressIs delivery to my room included, can the old mattress be taken away, and what do these cost?A large mattress can be hard to get up stairs, and disposing of an old one can cost money.
- Materials and smellWhat materials is it made of, does it have independent safety or emissions certification, and does it smell when new?New foam mattresses can smell for days or weeks. Certifications show what was tested; check what each one means.
- Optional
- Care it needsDoes it need turning or rotating, and how often?Some mattresses should be rotated every few months to wear evenly. Check what the warranty requires.
- A cover that can be washedCan the cover be removed and washed?Useful for spills and allergies. A mattress protector does a similar job.
The button opens this checklist in NeutralPick. There you can:
- Remove the checks that don't matter to you, add your own, and move checks between groups.
- Add each mattress you are considering.
- For each mattress, fill in what you found on the maker's website, its support pages and the shop's product page.
- See every mattress side by side.
Want to see what a finished comparison looks like first? See an example comparison with three made-up mattresses.
Claims to look at carefully
Adverts and product pages often describe the points below in vague terms. When you see one, look for the specific information shown here. If you cannot find it, assume the answer is "no" or "only partly".
- A long "risk-free trial". Look for the minimum number of nights, any collection fee, and whether you get a full refund.
- A long warranty. Look for how deep a dip must be before it is covered, and what is excluded.
- "Orthopaedic" or "for back pain". These words have no fixed meaning. Look for the actual firmness and what the maker recommends it for, and ask your doctor if you have a medical condition.
- A permanent "sale". If a mattress always seems to be discounted, compare the price you would actually pay, not the discount.
What to do with what you found
- Put all the mattresses side by side.
- Look at the Must have checks first. If a mattress gets a No on one of your must-haves, remove it, however good the rest looks. Look closely at any Partial.
- If you can, lie on the ones left in a shop, in your usual sleeping position, for several minutes each.
- Before you buy, save a copy of the trial, return and warranty terms.
Why use NeutralPick to compare mattresses
- The same checks for every mattress. You fill in the same checklist for each mattress you are considering, so you compare them in the same way.
- Everything in one table. You see every mattress side by side, check by check, instead of switching between shop pages and notes.
- Nobody can pay to influence it. There are no adverts, no paid placements and no "featured" products. No maker or shop can pay to be shown to you or placed higher.
- Free, with no account. You don't need to sign up or pay anything.